人際溝通藝術A GOOD CONVERSATION
這樣「聊」就可以很有趣Talking with others can be fun for everyone
對方在說話的時候，務必展現高度關注；認真傾聽他人表達。
切忌為了補充自己的經驗就打斷別人。
在別人講完之後，可以進一步提出一些問題，然後再仔細聆聽他們的回應。
別人說話的時候，不要讓自己的眼神四處亂飄；這樣會讓對方認為你對他們並非真的在意。
反之，如果是你自己正在回應提問，不要說個沒完沒了。
給出答覆就可以停止了。
好的對談交流有一點像打網球，球在雙方之間來回往返。
另外，還要避免拋出「是非題」；因為這類型的提問根本無助交談持續。
應該以「什麼」或是「為何」等開放式提問取代。
好的交談也應該有好的結尾。
在聊了一會兒之後，你可以說：「我現在得走了。」你也可以講明理由。
例如這樣說：「我真的得走了；十分鐘後我要上健身課。」 現在，主動走入人群，好好聊一場吧！
what’s the best way to show someone that you’re listening?
When the other person is talking, it is extremely important to be interested in them. Listen to what they are saying. Do not interrupt to add your experience.When they finish, ask some more questions, and listen to the answers.
Don't allow your eyes to wander around the room as they talk. That gives the other person the message that you're not really interested in them. On the flip side, if you're answering a question, don't go on and on. Give an answer and stop.
A good verbal exchange is a little like a tennis game, in which the ball goes back and forth. Also, avoid yes/no questions.
They can stop a conversation. Instead, ask open-ended questions using what or why.
A conversation should end well, too.
After you've conversed for a bit, you can say, "I need to run now." You may also give a reason. Say something like, "I really need to get going. My exercise class starts in 10 minutes."
Now, go out and enjoy a good conversation!
interrupt（v.）打岔；打斷
Chase always interrupts people when they are talking.
Just as Margie began to speak, Lily interrupted her.
The economic crisis interrupted Grace’s plans to go to university. 經濟危機上大學的計畫
wander（v.）閒逛；遊蕩
Sharon’s mind always wanders during meetings.
The kids wander along the small river looking for a good place to fish.
Edward has to watch his son carefully when they go out because Nathan always wanders off. 逛著逛著就走遠了
ask clarifying questions
knock, knock jokes
For example, these often have puns in them, words that could mean one thing when said in one context or another thing in another context.
lettuce / let us
social cues
社會線索是通過影響我們對他人的印象和反應，通過面部，身體，聲音，動作和引導性對話以及其他社會互動表達的語言或非語言信號。這些觀念是重要的溝通工具，因為它們傳達了重要的社會和情境信息，從而促進了社會理解。社會線索的一些示例包括： 視線 表情 聲調 身體語言，暗示 社會線索是社會認知的一部分，在瀏覽社會世界時有多種用途。
As I was saying…
A phrase you can say to show people that what you want to say is important and you still have more to say, you can say, "as I was saying…
on the flip side
often it means on the other hand
if you're answering a question, don’t go on and onA phrase you can say to show people that what you want to say is important and
heart-to-heart
heart-to-heart conversation
I had a heart-to-heart conversation with my son last night. 交心的對談
exchange（n.）短暫的對話
Their friendly exchange turned into an argument.
exchange（v.）交換；互換
Bent exchanged money at the airport when he went to Thailand.
Melanie and Ruth exchanged phone numbers so they could keep in touch.
converse（v.）交談
When learning a language, try to converse with native speakers.
Even though Aaron is quite shy, he can still converse with strangers easily.
Have you ever conversed with two people on two different phones at the same time?
verbal vs. non-verbal
open-ended vs. closed-ended questions
I need to run now.
go on and on 繼續不停；說個不停
to put one’s own spin on something
If you put your own spin on something, it means you give it your own flair【天賦】, you do it in your own style.
marinate（v）/ marinade（n） 醃漬；醃泡
to take off
to be on to something
This means that you have either discovered something, or you have found some information that may lead to a very important discovery, right?
